Then it hits you so much harder than you thought it would.

M and I soon settled into a routine of spending the weekends together and an occasional weeknight. With my children home much of the time and living an hours drive apart our time in each others company was somewhat limited. M had met the boys before, and they thought he was wonderful. On the weekends … Continue reading Then it hits you so much harder than you thought it would.

Try imagining a space where it’s always safe and warm.

I received a message from M one day while I was at work. He was listening to The Cure in his workshop and while Love Cats was playing he immediately thought of me. We had been seeing each other on occasion for quite some time, he was a firm friend and I was taken aback by his … Continue reading Try imagining a space where it’s always safe and warm.

The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.

The day had arrived. I was prepared, physically and mentally. Work was done, the boys were with their dad and I was heading west for "The biggest & best Kink night in the South West !!" I was beyond nervous, but knew that if I didn't keep pushing myself forward I would start to pull back … Continue reading The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.