There is no one giant step that does it, it’s a lot of little steps.

Following Kink and Cake my Fetlife profile suddenly became more interesting. Before I had even arrived home I had received half a dozen friends requests, and as I accepted them my feed gradually took on a different feel. No longer was it littered with pictures and writings by unknown kinksters, there were now updates from … Continue reading There is no one giant step that does it, it’s a lot of little steps.

Life shrinks or expands, in proportion to one’s courage

Up until this point my experiences had all been private. My online presence could only be described as "lurking." Now though I had decided to get out and about to events when I was available. My visit to the couple had been planned as a step towards this goal, and now that I knew the … Continue reading Life shrinks or expands, in proportion to one’s courage

My only requirement for life is that I don’t get stuck in a rut.

Though there was sadness at not being owned, I understood and accepted the turn of events. If wanted to make the most of my life and not be stuck at home wallowing in the what ifs I had to get going. I knew that I wasn't looking for a new dominant, I wasn't ready for … Continue reading My only requirement for life is that I don’t get stuck in a rut.

Nothing is more powerful than an idea whose time has come.

Sir had been called in to attend a meeting not far from me, so K and I were invited to join him the evening before. When he emailed us in the morning, I responded promptly and chattered to K via text but, unknown to me, she didn't respond to him. I received an email later … Continue reading Nothing is more powerful than an idea whose time has come.

Patience is not the ability to wait- it’s how we behave while we are waiting.

With my meeting with B fast approaching K had also brought up the subject of joining us. She broached the subject with me one evening over dinner. We often spent the evening together at hers when my boys were with their dad and her partner was at work. She kept me updated with their (her … Continue reading Patience is not the ability to wait- it’s how we behave while we are waiting.

Let us stumble through the night and make friends with all the stars.

Time continued to slip past like water slips through my fingers. After K had said she wanted to join me and Sir for a scene she had given me her email address so he could contact her. He asked that I gave her his contact details so that he would know it was her choice … Continue reading Let us stumble through the night and make friends with all the stars.